How to Satisfy Your Fifty Shades of Grey Curiosity
“Curiosity is the lust of the mind.” — Thomas Hobbes
The third cinematic installment of the Fifty Shades of Grey phenomenon took over theaters worldwide in 2018. A formidable box office success, Fifty Shades Freed once again introduces BDSM into the alternative lifestyle dialogue. If you’re a fan of the intimate ideas presented by this franchise, but have yet to experience them first hand — by now your curiosity must be at a fever pitch.
Many spectacles displayed upon the silver screen are simply unattainable by the average person. It is entirely possible, however, for anyone to commence with carnal adventures similar to those of Christian Grey and Anastasia Steele. You and your partner can discover fulfillment by engaging in fantasies aroused by consenting restraint and subsequent play. Imagine an array of Fifty Shades of Grey-inspired accessories and E.L. James-approved wines that allow you to escape bedroom boredom and step into a world of seduction, submission and satisfaction.
Origins of Informed Consent
BDSM is an overlapping acronym involving a total of six terms; Bondage and Discipline, Domination and Submission, Sadism and Masochism. Evidence of these practices can be found in texts dating back to the ninth century BC. Illustrated depictions of restraint and flagellation in a sexual context occur with greater and greater frequency during Post-classical history, through the middle ages and into modern times. This subset of sexual behaviors accumulated its title during the European Fetish, American Fetish and Gay Leather movements beginning around 1928, 1934 and 1950, respectively. All of these subcultures agreed on the underlying notion of BDSM being practiced only with the informed consent of all parties involved, and done so for the gratification of dominant and submissive personalities. In short, partners agree to express passive and aggressive sexual roles in the interest of mutual fulfillment. So with stated mutual consent and safety words at the ready, welcome to the indulgently carnal and erotically lavish realm of FSOG-style BDSM.
An excellent way to ease into your first foray is with a few suggestive sips of vino. Similar to the duality of dominant and submissive roles, the E.L. James-approved wines feature a dark, sultry red and a light, crispy white. The 2012 Fifty Shades of Grey Red Satin Petite Sirah and Syrah can awaken the playful sadist in you with decadent hints of leather, caramel and cocoa while stimulating your inner mischievous masochist with aromas of black cherry, vanilla and clove spice. Meanwhile, the 2013 Fifty Shades of Grey White Silk Gewürztraminer and Sauvignon Blanc emits aromatics of nighttime jasmine and lychee to inspire a knotty dominant partner and flavors of grapefruit, butterscotch and pear to satisfy a submissive lover’s thirst. As inhibitions wash away, you and your partner can assume roles of voyagers rather than voyeurs in a journey of discovery in the realms of BDSM.
Tighten Down the Restraints
The practice of consenting bondage and discipline is based on the idea that the “top” partner assumes complete control over the “bottom” partner. This can fulfill respective desires to dominate and to be dominated, often at the same time or as partners take turns at each role. The Fifty Shades of Grey accessory line features a bondage kit including four restraints made of soft satin. As a blindfolded Anastasia-like “sub,” you can be held firmly yet comfortably in place as you anticipate the tap of the dual-textured paddle. If you’re playing the “dom” role, you can begin wearing an official FSOG Christian Grey Tie which can be used to restrain your lover’s hands while you please them or to tease their naked skin with the sensual silver quilting. If you and your partner are interested in restraint with comprehensive control and versatility, the Fifty Shades of Grey Hard Restraints Kit is ideal. Four velcro bands can be used as wrist and ankle cuffs and in conjunction with bedposts or entirely without. The kit includes a padded satin blindfold that enhances control for the top and anticipation for the bottom. Meanwhile, nylon leads from each cuff attached to a center ring keep the set assembled for easy travel and storage.
Gentle control, consenting restraint and the anticipation of delivering and receiving pleasure opens the door to accessory play. Imagine dominating your partner, their restraints and blindfolds in place, and the inherent excitement of stimulating them with an array of Fifty Shades of Grey adult toys. You can push your partner further into pleasure with nipple teasers, a finger massager or a set of pleasure beads that they did not know were on the agenda. The fact that they are blindfolded and vulnerable can heighten the sensations, immersing them in repeating waves of ecstasy. If you are restrained, blindfolded and quivering in anticipation, imagine your partner surprising you with sensations from a G-spot Rabbit Vibrator or a Sweet Touch Mini Clitoral Vibrator. With your permission, they might even caress you with lubricant and then insert the Fifty Shades of Grey Driven by Desire Silicone Pleasure Plug.
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